Sunday, 24 July 2016

Collaboration,Community & Creativity: ECPP 2016 (Part 2)


Disclaimer: I am not a scientist. My background is in the arts and I am still reflecting on why any ‘proper’ science department would have taken me on board to study for a master’s in Psychology.  So thank you, UEL, for taking that risk!

The ECPP 2016 was my first chance to experience the positive psychology world beyond UEL. I was expecting experiential happiness. I was looking for others to creatively collaborate with in order to feel I belonged in this community of ‘clever, proper scientists’.

As someone whose signature strengths include creativity and a love of beauty and excellence, I was looking for ways to explore these areas at  ECPP. At first glance, the programme didn’t seem to offer any such opportunity. Where was the art and creativity? The programme had two entries mentioning creativity: Sue Langley – who was using emotions intelligently to enhance creativity and innovation, and Auguste Dumouilla – whose poster was about creativity, emotion and well-being.

Due to the hectic nature of the conference, I didn’t get to Sue’s session or find Auguste’s poster. However, I did find plenty of creativity to celebrate in Angers:

  •  The conference centre was teaming with individuals expressing themselves through the way they dressed; so much research material for my flourishing fashion project and an Instagram feed on its own!


  • There was also a constant thread running through the keynotes I attended that in order for PP to evolve we need to look outside of the sciences and reach across to other disciplines; collaborations which harness divergent views to create original outcomes.


  •  Coaching Psychology and creativity: I attended a symposium on coaching and PP, perfect partners for systemic change in which all of the speakers expressed creativity in the manner they presented as well as the content.


  •  Illona Boniwell’s closing keynote called for ‘making PP tangible’ which to my ears was a shout out to arts, crafts and design to get involved.


My vision for interdisciplinary collaboration to form a positive psychology art community begins with the very spaces the science of PP already inhabits: universities. UEL is a centre for amazing arts education. I would love to see the Psychology Department  reaching out to the arts in order to create a bi-directional culture of sharing research and ideas. Art graduates would benefit from accessing the wellbeing interventions that applied PP has to offer. Stress levels of the staff could be reduced with individual PP coaching, perhaps using coaching students who had a particular interest in creative practises to offer lunchtime sessions.  

The architects could collaborate on ways to make environments of flourishing informed by PP research. Research for innovative ways to make PP concrete would be enhanced by designers who aren’t constrained by the boundaries of science.  Who better to take a complex concept and make it useable than artists? It’s what they do in every area of their work. And of course the fashion department could make collections that make us all happy!  

On my last afternoon, I explored Angers galleries with a friend; bonding over art is one of my favourite experiences. There is a very special connection that occurs when we share the feelings that surface when we encounter art. I have ‘coached’ whilst wondering in galleries, the impact of imagery on allowing creative ways to surface never ceases to amaze. That very personal end to my first PP conference shaped my overall impression of the event.

If the success, on an individual level, of a conference is making one contact and finding one piece of inspiration then ECPP 2016 exceeded that. I came away with so many ideas that it has taken me a month to filter them and make any sense of where they fit with my personal vision. (I am a percolator not a procrastinator!) I cemented existing connections and made new contacts with positive people from all over the world. I hope that in sharing my ideas about the conference on social media I will continue to form new associations that offer me opportunities to hear differing opinions and perspectives.

On the flight home – so full of positive people that the cabin was buzzing with energy – I chatted with Felicia Huppert. It’s always exciting when you can talk to one of your heroes,  I mentioned how well her dress had stood out at her keynote speech and the impact it had from the back of the auditorium. She replied: “that’s my happy dress, I wore it for a special birthday and it always makes me feel good.” I apologise for not asking if I can use the quote, Felicia, but the validation you gave my research made me feel as if there is a place for me in Positive Psychology. Perhaps fashion and PP is the perfect fusion.

I went to Angers looking for the three ‘C’s: collaboration, community and creativity; I found them.



For more inspiration on links between art and well-being: 










Thursday, 21 July 2016

10 transformative takeaways from ECPP 2016 (Part 1)




        1.  Lisa Vivoll Straume (MIND)  - Toolkit Strength Based Development Workshop

I learnt:  i) How to map my own strength quadrant.         
               ii) The importance of individual strengths when building a team
               ii) The power of Table Top and Simulations to create solutions.

I felt:      Elated. Inspired. Energised.  

I will:       Take care not to overuse my core strengths and to pay attention when my ‘allergy’ strengths are activated so I pause and respond rather than react.


Want to know more?    MIND

Straume, L. V. & Vittersø, J. (2015). Well-being at work: Some differences between life satisfaction and personal growth as predictors of subjective health and sick-leave. Journal of Happiness Studies. 16, 149-168. doi:10.1007/s10902-014-9502-y

Straume, L.V., (2015). "Leadership development in positive psychology: Practical methods for balancing the use of core values and strengths» Symposium presentation at the EAWOP Conference, Oslo: May 22

Kvernmo, A. (2015). Symposium "Magic Moments. Strength-spotting in value-oriented leadership development» Symposium presentation at the EAWOP Conference, Oslo: May 22, 2015

     2James Pawleski- What is positive psychology? The importance of Theory for Research and Practice.

I learnt:  i) Work is still needed to clarify the core concepts of PP and communicate them more effectively.
                 ii) I can give you a RED cape which will let you stop “bad” things. Or I can give you a GREEN cape which will let you grow good” things. Which cape will you choose?
                ii) Fractal flourishing holds out for the well-being of individuals and groups, valuing happiness in the short-term and in the long-term. This   approach  works both locally and globally.

I felt:      uplifted that the positive in PP is still relevant.  

I will:       Always pack a reversible cape.

Want to know more? James Pawleski




     3.  Bob Vallerand  It's about time: The role of passion in adaptive self process.

I learnt:  i) Harmonious passion is good for us.
                 ii) Optimal functioning is temporal.
                iii) The highest level of well-being is achieved with a positive present state combined with a positive/resolved past and an optimistic future.

I felt:      passionate…. All-be-it with a touch of obsession.

I will:       Take a positive outlook on time and combine it with harmonious passion in order to achieve optimum psychological well-being.

Want to know more? 


    4. Barbara Frederickson Why Prioritize Positivity?

I learnt:  i) Prioritizing positivity can trigger upward spirals of lifestyle change and the development of harmonious passion.
                 ii) Individuals who seek positivity, with decisions about how to organize their day-to-day lives, may be happier than those who don’t.
                ii) Studies suggest that seeking happiness, although a balancing act, is a worthwhile pursuit. 

I felt:      Absorbed and engaged…And also a little bit awed (bit of a crush going on I think!)

I will:       Set aside time each day for feel good activities which are as vital to my wellbeing as exercise, nutrition and sleep.




     5.  Mohsen Fatemi -Positive Psychology and Psychology of Possibility 

I learnt:  i) Infinite possibilities unfold themselves in emergent modes of mindfulness.
                 ii) Langerian psychology of possibility concentrates on what can be.
                iii) Only one participant is needed to substantiate that something is possible.

I felt:      Validated for  wanting qualitative research, most especially IPA, to be more prevalent in PP.

I will:       Notice new things. Live proactively in the moment. Be sensitive towards context. Celebrate multiple perspectives.


     6.  Neil Garret how the brain forms optimistic beliefs

I learnt:  i) People incorporate good news into their existing beliefs in a normative manner but they discount bad news leading to optimistically biased beliefs.
                 ii) This asymmetry fluctuates in response to changes in the environment in a way that may be adaptive.
               iii)  Balanced variation in this is more likely to be observed in depression and middle age.

I felt:      Not clever enough to be a doing a science masters!  

I will:       Adjust my beliefs in response to external information with more consideration.


     7. Felicia Huppert  What makes people flourish? 

I learnt:  i) The real reason well-being matters is that well-being is an end in itself – an ultimate good.
                 ii) The skills of attention, emotion regulation, and self-compassion all underpin flourishing.
                ii) Mindfulness is the key to unlocking these skills.

 I felt:      Mindful. Kindful. And amazed at the fact that Felicia’s dress was such a good choice as it created an impact even from the very back of the auditorium.  

I will:      Continue to be mindful.



8. Neil Thin - Aspirational social planning: beyond social problems and living standards.

I learnt:  i) Good minds need good societies.           
                 ii) The importance of  social transformations required to support individual flourishing.
                ii) A cross –disciplinary approach is needed to find innovative ways to inform public policy in bringing about the changes necessary for great societies.  

I felt:      Elated. Inspired. Energised.  

I will:       Take small steps to collaborate with others to find ways to make our environments more conducive to well-being.



    9. Coaching psychology and positive psychology – perfect partners.  Symposium.  Stephen Palmer,  Suzy Green & Ilona Boniwell

I learnt:  i) there is no ‘I’ in team.           
                 ii) You can take the psychology out of coaching but not the psychology out of coaching psychology.
                iii) Problem Island can be transformed into the solution island with the right  coaching questions.
                 iv) Creating a positive culture fits naturally with coaching.
                v) Happiness bubbles exist.

I felt:      In the right Room, at the right time with the right people.

I will:       Not groan (GROWn) when I use the GROW model yet again.
               Create my own ‘dashboard’
               Not be embarrassed about being creative with PP; its OK to embrace my deviant thinking…being original can be an asset in this field.

Want to know more?   http://www.isfcp.net/ 






10. Ilona Boniwell –  Positive Education :making positive psychology tangible

I learnt:  i) THINKERING – Think + tinker : the creation and understanding of concepts in the mind while tinkering with the hands.  
                 ii) ‘Hands on thinking’ – purpose, framing, sharing, exploring, combining.      
     ii) “You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation” Plato

 I felt:      Delighted to be part of this ‘family’ of PP. Sad that this was the end of my first experience of a PP conference. Positive that we can make a difference by applying this science stuff with creativity, originality and flair.

I will:       Take my new found confidence ( I wouldn’t have dreamt that I could be so brave as to ask the closing question!) into my life.

Want to know more?



Monday, 20 June 2016

Flourishing Fashion : An Experiential Wardrobe


There is a saying in academia “all research is me-search”. I suspect this is even truer when the researcher is a psychologist. All my life I have loved clothes. I have worked with fashion and design in some form or other since I was fifteen. I switched careers to become a therapist and am now completing a positive psychology masters. It was natural to turn to dress and fashion as a research topic.
I could chart my life’s ups and downs, the emotional highs and lows, through the clothes that I wore. From  my wedding dresses (two) to the dress I wore for my brothers funeral, or the party frock I have on in the photo of my fifth birthday to the jumpsuit I wore for my fiftieth, or one of the many stripy tee-shirts I have owned in the last thirty-five years, every garment has a story to tell. Embedded in my wardrobe is the journal of my states of mind. Fashion functioning as a way to both express my mood and create the way I want to feel; to communicate and enhance.
For the most part I am no longer the disturbed distressed person I was a young adult and my wardrobe reflects this. I still love black (can black express happiness?), but on occasion will choose colour. There is no mood that can’t be lifted by putting on red lipstick and some type of striped top.
I am nearly always happy. And if I’m not I can reframe it in some way to provide a positive outcome.
I am intrigued by the way other people use dress, clothes, fashion, call it what you will, to show who they are and how they feel. I want to know if there is a formula for wardrobe wellbeing, if I can find some way to ad(dress) depression with a simple positive psychology  intervention based on getting dressed in the morning. Can we choose to make ourselves happier by intentionally selecting an outfit?
I need to understand a little of why this research is so important to me in order that I can allow for this prejudice in my interviews and analysis. Part of the emotional response I have to clothes is the link to my mother and sisters, all beautiful women who used fashion to their best advantage. I associate being happy with a new dress, I link joy with the feeling of great fabric on my skin; I connect contentment with being wrapped in a cashmere cardigan or the pleasure of a certain pair of shoes creating the excitement of a chance encounter. Fashion for me is psychological and all about positive emotions. 
I have chosen 10 images which represent happy outfits for me. I’ll share a little of why and what they mean, however some of the emotions are so fleeting, as if made of gossamer, that they have been hard for me to catch. A whiff of happiness like a lost perfume, I know that at that moment when I wore that dress I felt great, but thinking about it in the present moment is often tinged with sadness; I am unable to recreate the feeling even if I put that dress on, it needs the context. There are other garments that haven’t lost the power to make me smile years down the line, what might it be about them that they can still make me smile? If I could work that out would I have a recipe for flourishing fashion?


1)Luella shoes – even if I just put these shoes on with jeans I would jump for joy; well not exactly jump because they are high but they make me so very happy. I wore them for my second wedding but they were love-worn long before then. They made me feel successful, in control of my own destiny and very special. I have loads of shoes which make me feel truly great but this pair is the best ever. Thinking about them makes me want to go and get them right now and wear them whilst I am writing. These shoes represent freedom, fun, and beifabulous forty something recreating the life I wanted just for me on the Kings Road; Chelsea Girl shoes.

2) Red Pyjamas – this were very soft winceyette and clashed with my hair, they were just pretty enough, not too little girly. I loved getting home and putting them on. My flatmate had almost matching ones, we often looked like bookends on the sofa. I still love the comfort of a great pair of PJ’s, they make me feel loved and as if I am being cuddled. This particular pair, this photo, reminds me of a great time living in LA. I wish I still had those red pyjamas.
3) Ghost-silver grey ‘wedding’ dress. Of course the dress you wear to get married in will always be special but this dress is more than that; it falls in such a sensuous way, it caresses your body so you feel really sexy. The cut is soft and flowing. It makes me feel a bit Hollywood, like a screen goddess and that’s a nice feeling. You can see how happy this dress made me on my wedding day and it hangs in a special spot so whenever I pass it I want to stroke it. It makes me very happy just knowing a dress as good as this exists.

4) Leather Jacket – this isn’t about the chips it’s all about my trusty black leather jacket. I could wear it with anything and it makes for a happy outfit. This one is a luxury but any I have owned have had the same effect; instant feel-good. I love black and white one of my best combinations… a sort of striped t-shirt effect but without the shirt or the stripes. If I needed to make myself feel strong and secure and very me I would wear my leather jacket and nothing else would matter. 

5) A Stripped T-shirt. If I had to have a desert island happy making wardrobe I would
fill it with stripy tees so had to add another one. My black jeans also make me happy and
you can just make them out in this photo.

6) Another Striped Tee-shirt – this one happens to be black and white but could just as easily be navy and white, any of  the many I own have the same instant positive effect. They make me feel on top of the world…tickety-boo…putting on a stripy tee is my version of Prozac. I could wear one every day and the world would be OK. I don’t really know why I have any other items in my wardrobe. Stripey tees are my ultimate happy garment. 

7) Paris T-shirt and check skirt – I have removed the leather jacket but it’s all part of the wellbeing-ness in this group of clothes. A tee–shirt that I go to when I don’t want to wear stripes but want the same feeling. For some reason I Feel like Simone de Beauvoir in this outfit and that’s a good thing. I like feeling clever. I also feel swishy in this skirt, its soft and comfortable and young (I’m sensing a theme). It has a feeling a bit like a school uniform. I look happy here.

8) Kenzo summer dress –I don’t look obviously happy in this photo but this is a genuine happy frock. It’s sunny and bright and jolly. I always take it on holiday because it is fun and a bit silly and that is how it makes me feel. It’s very young. I want to be just a bit outrageous in such an ebullient dress. It really is too short at my age but I just don’t care…if I could turn cartwheels I would do it in this dress and flash my knickers, that’s how good this makes me feel.

9) white shorts, printed top, gold sandals – my standard beach outfit,  always have some variation of this going on when I’m on holiday. White shorts make me feel that summer will go on for ever. This little top is so old but I love it; the print spells LOVE and that’s how I it makes me feel; young, sexy, relaxed and in love. The gold sandals are also ancient but make me feel beachy; I love pretty feet.

10) Black jump-suit – hmm black and white again, with giant pearls and red shoes. Jumpsuits sound childish, there is something not very mature about them so perhaps that’s why wearing this one at my fiftieth birthday made me happy. If I wear it with a t-shirt and leather jacket it makes me just as happy. It’s a bit like a pair of pyjamas in the comfort league but with glamour. I do love these shoes if I teamed them with the red PJ’s and leather jacket that would be a very happy outfit.



I am conducting an experiment on myself and for the next 7 days I will be dressing each
day with the sole intention of being happy, no outfit will be allowed if it doesn’t bring a smile
to my lips when I look in the mirror. Expect to see plenty of stripy tee-shirts! If anyone is
intrigued I will put the outfits on my instagram page, @wearingwellbeing, with a comment on
my emotional response.
Happy dressing xx



Wednesday, 27 January 2016

100 Happiness Credits in the Positivity Bank



10 things I've learnt from #10toshinedaily10

  1. Spending time on a creative project every day makes me focused on my own unique ways of experiencing happiness. 
  2. I love having a very simple daily goal that feels just the right balance of achievable and challenging.
  3. Thinking about what is good in my life right now, and in the past, makes me extremely grateful that I am so lucky.
  4. Experimenting with different ways to show my DAILY10 is increasing my knowledge and skills.
  5. Looking out for each days theme makes me pay attention and become more mindful of my day. 
  6. I feel very  privileged to have so much in my life to enjoy.And I've got 100 images if I need reminding.
  7. I genuinely believe that social media can be used to add to wellbeing; reviewing my #10TOSHINEDAILY10 photos gives me a feelgood glow.
  8. I can't  'make' others join in! But I love it when they do.It's fantastic to see other people's happiness.
  9. When I do inspire anyone to take a baby step to acting in a way to increase their happiness I dance around the kitchen in joyful  abandon.
  10. WE (Weef & I) have enjoyed this so much that we are going to continue to collect our daily 10 taking it in turns to put an image up on 10TOSHINEDAILY10 The intention is that this will become a space where we can create a dialogue around our ideas on the art of positive living, a kind of free-association of images in response to our day-to-day happiness levels.



Sunday, 17 January 2016

10 to SHINE 10 Day Challenge



The middle of January can sometimes feel a bit of a let down, Christmas excitement has faded away.....the spring seems along way off. With that in mind I have decided it's the perfect time for a happiness making challenge. Simply 10 days of 10 reasons to be cheerful.

10 reasons to do the 10toshine 10 day challenge

1. Research suggests that focus our minds on the good things in our life increases our well- being.
2. The challenge will encourage you to be mindful of what makes you feel happy
3. Anything that is done with consistency for 10 days forms new neural pathways and become a habit (actually I made up the 10 day bit of this but it might!!!)
4. You will acquire insight into what makes you positive and how to add more of it to every day.
5. It may encourage others to share their ideas of happiness.
6. You will increase your creativity as you come up with innovative ways to respond to the challenge.
7. It will encourage you to spend 10 minutes every day on yourself.
8. Your brain is built to learn new things and loves a challenge.
9. Feeling good for 10 minutes will release oxytocin and make you feel even better than good.
10. It’s a simple way to be happy, that’s free, can be shared, can be done anywhere with whatever you have to hand. Alone or with friends. 

AND at the end of the 10 day challenge you will have 100 different ways that your life is AMAZING, that you are FABULOUS, that what you do every day is ASTONISHING, that life is WONDERFUL. That this is a ZIP-A-DE-DO-DAH place to be, at this time, in this place, right now. 

We will all have days when life doesn’t go according to plan, dark cloudy moments when it’s tough to remember the sun will shine again. If you have a whole 100 reasons in your resilience bank that you can dip into, it will help you to maintain a sense that this too will pass. 

Bonus Reason to do the 10toshine 10 day challenge

If you do participate you will also get the added bonus of making me really happy and endlessly gratefully. I may thank you in the form of cake, dance, or thank you posts on your favourite social media platform. 


So how do you do the 10toSHINE 10 Day Challenge?

It’s very simple starting on Monday 18th January I’m asking you to find 10 things each day that make you happy and to post them on any social media platform with the hashtag #10toshineDaily10

You could put them up 10 times in the day, or post once each day. You can write lists or draw a cartoon. You could take 10 photos during the course of the day or a collage of 10 images. You could record 10 words that make you smile, or bake 10 cupcakes iced with reasons to be cheerful.

Nothing should take more than 10 minutes to do, although if you want to take longer you can of course – it’s just that you may then find you use the excuse of not having enough time!

There are no right ways to do this but because I know that sometimes it is easier if you can see alternative ways to approach a task I'm going to offer 10 suggestions:

1. A list of 10 people you love:
I found this hard because I wanted to start to sort out the different ways and kinds of love I have for people…..I love lots and lots of my family and friends, I love people who would probably only consider themselves an acquaintance and would be embarrassed if I said I loved them! So I just put down the first 10 names that I thought of when I was the word LOVE.
2. 10 photos of things you own that make you happy:
I choose my 10 favourite coloured pens because I love drawing and certain colours make me smile.
3. A mind map of the 10 things that you appreciate most about yourself:
Celebrate all your good bits
4. Choose 10 things you see every day which you are grateful to have in your life:
5. A collage of the 10 images on your phone that make you grin from ear to ear:
All those silly moments you collect but haven’t necessarily shared because you may not be looking your best!
6. The 10 songs that make you smile whenever you think of them.
I’d love to have the skills to edit my selection together in a kind of happy compilation and upload them but that is beyond me.
7. Find a way to represent 10 positive emotions:
8. Take 1 photo on the hour for 10 hours: 
I’m going to do this for my first challenge on Monday. Whatever I’m doing between 8am and 5pm I shall stop and find the thing in my view which makes me feel good.
9. Make a collection of 10 jokes:
Weef’s suggestion this one, I would struggle to write up 10 jokes but look out for his!
10. Photograph your 10 favourite tee-shirts: 
I have 10 favourite strippy tees and they make me very happy especially if I get dressed before Weef as the rule in our house is whoever wears the stripes is the winner for the day. We take great pleasure in our childlike rituals.

Please have a go at joining me in the 10toshine 10 day challenge, it’s a bit silly,very light hearted and a good way to get to the end of the month. We often set ourselves goals which deprive us of things, this challenge is about adding more to our life, increasing the things which give us pleasure not denying ourselves. 

I would love to be able to collect all the images and lists that have been hash-tagged and collate a front page for the new project I’m working on so please do share and let’s see how high we can raise our happiness for the next 10 days.

Be shiny happy people and show me the results. xxx


Tuesday, 22 December 2015

Looking forward to looking back – Acknowledging a good year




When we are little we are encouraged to write a letter to Father Christmas explaining the reasons we ‘deserve’ presents; if we are lucky this may have encouraged us to reflect on what we have achieved in the previous twelve months that made us ‘good’.  We may continue this when we write notes in our Christmas cards telling friends our news. Looking back at the end of the year seems natural to us.
When we acknowledge our achievements we relive the good stuff and our brains reward us further with releasing the feel good hormones that were activated at the time of the original event. It can also be useful to note what felt good last year so that we can have more of it next year. Goal setting in January can be more fun when it is focused on positive aspects rather than denying ourselves and giving things up!
So take a little bit of me time this week to think about all the good things you did this past year; those successes that you feel good about. The little daily triumphs in life that help uplift us. The big actions that lead us to new ways of being.  It may work for you to just close your eyes and let the memories come or perhaps your Facebook page is the diary of your good stuff, I find that instagram is a collection of all my happy moments,and working out how to use instagram is on my achievement list this year, along with hashtags,daily tweeting and feeling good about writing a blog! When you have spent time thinking and feeling your victories it’s helpful to find a way to make them tangible. Writing, drawing, creating in some way a tribute to yourself, your personal ‘wow, look at what I have accomplished …… I am amazing’ (and if it makes you feel better write it to Father Christmas!)
Of course there will be sadness for many of us about losses and disappointments from the past year but we can still acknowledge how we responded to those events. It doesn't detract from the importance someone meant to us or the significance sorrow; if we are able to take pride in having been aware of our pain but are still able to smile when the sun comes up we are displaying healthy self-awareness. When we have survived a year of turmoil we should appreciate our own resilience with extra gratitude.
It maybe that you want to look at making a gratitude map when you have finished basking in your achievements for the year, or plotting your positivity path through 2015. Whatever cements all the ‘good stuff’ you have created, the ways you have flourished and the well-being you have promoted in your own life and others.
I like to take a big sheet of paper and let the words flow then add colour and doodles and patterns. This is for no one’s eyes but mine so I don’t need to worry about making sense or spelling correctly. This year I shall take a photo and make it my January screen saver; a reminder of what a fantastic 2015 I made for myself.

And don’t forget when you have basked in your own clever goodness to give yourself a big vote of thanks......it wouldn't hurt to face yourself in the mirror, smile and say out loud "well done, you made it, you are truly fabulous!" 



Monday, 14 December 2015

10 Gifts I’d like to give you this Christmas


1. A Self- Acceptance Stick – You are absolutely OK; and when you’re not OK then that’s fine too….. Every day you are doing your best and no one can ask for more than that. A handy alternative to a magic mirror.

2. Compassion Confetti – gather up big handfuls and chuck it about when love is in short supply; love for yourself as well as others.

Tip - applying hairspray before application helps it stick.

3. A Kindness Candle – lasts for hours, fragrance wafts far and wide, long lasting and self- fulfilling.

4. Positivity Pastilles – suck whenever doubts cloud your appetite. Can be administered freely without any side effects.

5. A Bottle of Meaningfulness – especially useful on dark January mornings when purpose may be in short supply.

6. Flourishing Essence – dab on pulse points to release flow. Also activates serotonin and with continued use can reset endorphin supplies.

7. Relationship Sprinkles – powerful and instantly transformative. Sheds light on misunderstanding and fosters empathy.

8. Achievement Medals – big and small accomplishments need to be recognised; try standing tall and shouting ‘YES’ when pinning a rosette to your lapel which will proclaim your greatness to all and sundry.

9. Endless Engagement – often an after effect of 5; but can be used as a stand-alone product in conjunction with a sense of purpose.

10. A Roll of Renewable Gratitude – the thank you tape that keeps on giving……


With lots of love 

Rebecca  @10toshine