So following on from the last post more on motivation…..
There is a theory of Self Determination, (SDT) that provides a way of looking
at what needs underpin the foundations of motivation. These needs are Autonomy,
Relatedness and Competency. I refer to them as the ARC of motivation. When
setting goals you have a higher chance of achieving your targets if these three
areas are enhanced. Autonomy in this instance refers to the need to have
choices, to be in charge of the wish to change rather than have it imposed on you
from external sources. Relatedness concerns the need to have a connection with others
that is enriched by the goal, to be appreciated for the effort you are making. It
can also mean the need to be understood and cared for when tackling new paths.
Competence needs are met when we are able to manage our emotions and
environments as well as new skills.
How does this work in
the real world outside of theory? Taking my goal this week of writing two blog
posts :
A - No one was looking over my shoulder or
setting me a deadline, I chose to write for the pleasure and enjoyment of doing
so.
R – My Blog connects
me with others, the more often I write the more I hope to provide ideas that
relate to helping people with their own goals. Writing about my own experience of
therapy links me to others with similar experiences.
C – As with any
skill the more I practise writing the easier it gets, and hopefully I get
better at it. Writing about therapy clarifies my thinking, which will improve
my practical abilities.
So goal achieved and gold stars all round.
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